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I am an optimistic, romantic, intelligent, witty lady. I am a widowed mother of a fifteen-year-old girl and a twelve-year-old boy who make me proud every day. I am an open-minded, sensual and passionate BBW as well as a really bad joke teller and lover of all things quirky. I used to be a type A personality until my world fell apart when my husband passed. Now, I take things as they come. I don't freak out over things I have no control. I know what issues deserve my energy and attention and which really can just be let be. I also know that we have one life and we owe it to ourselves to live it to the fullest, not to let others tell us how we should be living, going for as much happiness and pleasure that we can find. None of us are getting out of here alive and holding back on your dreams doesn't get you any special points in the end. I like Aunty Mame's saying,"Life's a banquet and most poor SOBs are starving to death."Along with loving 80s music and film, I enjoy keeping up-to-date on what's going on in the world, natural sciences, deep sea fishing, cooking, swimming, world history, painting pottery, spending time with my family, David Attenborough docs, live theater, traveling, especially to historical sites, bad puns, laughter and biting wit. Oh, and being served tropical drinks (with the little umbrella) whilst lounging by an azure pool at an all inclusive tropical resort. You know....like you do. I want to travel a lot more in the future. I don't hold much value in owning a bunch of stuff but traveling, meeting new people and learning about different cultures can only expand your world and enrich your life.

Capricorn

Big And Beautiful

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Widowed

Yes - At Home

No

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Blonde

Dog, Bird

Yes

University Degree

Homemaker

Other

None

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

With Kid(s), With Pet(s)

There Is No Noise

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Boisterous, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious

Family, Dining, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Not a big fan of "the coffee date." IMHO, you should talk on the phone or text and build up a rapport with someone. Then, go out on a real date. You will have lots to talk about and it's much less artificial feeling.

I've always wanted to try sailing on the lake. I used to go out on the Gulf all the time but I have yet to go out on the lake.

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt

Atheist

Never

Liberal

I am choosing to be happy and make the most of my time. I am a very involved mom and a good friend, sister and daughter. I don't work as my late husband arranged it so I would not have to return to work should he pass. However, I have to have something to do or my brain will atrophy. So, the future will hopefully see me opening my own business or traveling around the country and the world.

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy

Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family

Rap, Rock, Classical, Punk

Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Mystery, Science, Science Fiction, Erotica

Dinner parties with friends, Movies, Life Theater or music, comedy club, watching bad movies, Painting pottery,

Wit, Power, Money, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

I am looking for the real thing and not interested in boys who want to play. I am looking for an accomplished man who knows what he wants. He isn't married or in any sort of committed relationship. He is tall and a positive thinker and has more to say than complain about his ex, society, the media, politics, the government or his co workers/boss. His world is much bigger than the town he in which he lives. He believes in romance and courtship and respect. He is not a homebody and likes sports, swimming, skiing, nature, the arts and has a special appreciation of how warm and soft and giving a sensual BBW can be. He doesn't want to live without love,laughter and passion and refuses to settle for anything less. And the icing on my perfect man-cake would be that he is honest and kind.

Committed